Shelley Brenner Baird I know you are but what am I Mixed Media 58 x 26 inches $500 When kids face a name-calling bully, their defense is often "I know you are, but what am I?", mirroring the bully's words. Here is the ugliness of a bully's projection of his own traits, impulses and flaws onto someone else, putting them back where they belong, in his mouth.